Tuesday, October 14, 2014

Making friends with the rain; Making friends con los insectos.


     To say I’m “making friends” with the insects is a bit of a stretch, but I’d like to think that at least I am getting used to seeing them around the house and am not worried about sharing our apartment with them.  Despite our efforts to keep the floors swept and the door closed, there are many ways these little creatures make their way into the house, not the least of which are through the missing window panes or openings through the ceiling to the roof.  But these are also the many ways that we receive the wonderful fresh air and sounds of the birds and the bright light that floods our home throughout the day. Vilma, of our host family, keeps her plates in the refrigerator, because she learned from her mother, that if you want to make sure you didn't have any unexpected visitors on your dishes, it's the only safe way to know.   You might be wondering just what type of insects I'm talking about, and so far, I really can't complain; they are mostly roly polies (sp?), little moths, spiders and an occasional cucaracha (those are pretty big though; picture little crawdads).  In actuality, in coffee country we have it a lot better than those in the hot, humid climate of the coast, Guanacaste or Limon; in those places you will find many more little creatures.  We aren't really even bothered by mosquitos here, so like I said, I'm not complaining!
    I took this picture right outside our door; nice spider web, eh?

I also took a picture of this orchid right outside our door!

October is supposedly the rainiest month in Los Santos (the name of our region).  Sometimes it rains off and on throughout the day and night, and sometimes for only a short period, but when it rains, it pours!  I bought 2 pairs of boots; one smaller pair to wear or carry in case of a downpour and another sturdier pair for when we get to work in the coffee finca (starting in December).  We learned early on to never leave the house without an umbrella and that it helps to wear pants that are fast drying ! (so much for the wardrobe we brought!) But this is where you just take it in stride and make peace with the wetness.  This is why the hillsides are so green and the coffee is so plentiful!

 Francis, outside our apartment; it's on the backside of the house of Vilma and Monica.  We also have 5 stately guard dogs!

                                          Jooey, one of our guard dogs!

The past few weeks have gone by in a flurry.  We finished up our training in September and had some relaxing get togethers with our training group.
  Our swearing in ceremony was Oct. 1, and was extraordinarily nice, at the home of the US Ambassador to Costa Rica.  (If you are interested in a career in politics; I would recommend trying to get a job at this embassy!) One of the speakers at the ceremony, Mario Fung, a Director from the Ministry of Education, gave a moving speech about the impact of PCVs on the lives of the people in CR.  He singled out Francis, now serving his second stint as a PCV, as an example of dedication and commitment.  Mario seemed to have been quite moved by the fact that these “abuelos” as he called us (grandparents), were coming here to serve.  It made me teary and proud.   I only hope it comes to fruition; so keep your positive and encouraging thoughts of us coming!
You can view the swearing in ceremony on you tube at this link:http://youtu.be/Tb1diGYlBgc

 Afterwards, we were chauffeured around again to the home of the CR PC director for a catered lunch.  The next day, reality began to set in as we walked to the bus station with our heavy packs, for San Marcos.
 At the swearing in ceremony at the Ambassador's home.

We’ve been in San Marcos for 10 days now, each day, adding to our ideas of how to organize our apartment and set up “our home”.  I never knew there were so many ways  we could use boxes.  I’m in the process of painting a piece of cardboard to make a picture frame!  For you creative folks out there; you would thrive here!  Necessity is the mother of invention, yes?   We bought a coffee maker the other day and are experimenting with  different coffees and blends.  There are so many different types of coffee just from this area to try, it’s a good thing we have 2 years to figure this out!
                                                                Our kitchen 
                                         Our living room, dining room; we're using mosquito net packs for pillows on our chairs.  We actually have 2 Bedrooms; so visitors are welcome to stay here!  We're going to buy ourselves a double mattress for our anniversary! 
This is our BR.  Today we had a an extension built onto the bed to accommodate a double mattress.
Francis got handy the other day and hung a metal pipe for us to hang our clothes from.  He hung a mirror in front of the sink (our kitchen sink doubles as a bathroom sink) and he hung hooks on the wooden walls and backs of doors for clothes and backpacks.  It's quite organized and feels like home!

Our main task for the first 2-3 months of our service, is to do an assessment of the needs of the youth here, in order to determine in which ways our skills can best be utilized.  This  “diagnostic,  will help us to identify which projects we’ll develop and with whom.  For now, we are sitting in on small classes with the “orientadors” (counselors) from the “colegio” (highschool) and “escuela” (primary) school in order to meet the kids, and start to formulate our assessments.  Last week we met the “docentes” (teachers) at the colegio and passed out our questionnaire for them.  Today, Sunday, there was a big event at the school called “Encuentro de Culturas” (meeting of the cultures) which all of the parents attended.  The kids dressed up and performed dances from the different cultures that contributed to the formation of Costa Rica, including the indigenous, Spaniards, Afro-Caribbeans and Chinese.  The principal of the school introduced Francis and I to all who attended the event, and invited them to welcome us into their community.  When we met with him earlier in the week, he seemed especially interested in our presence in San Marcos and the possibility of helping to create a “community of peace”, as he called it!  All of the work that Francis has done with Friendship Circles and Conflict Resolution in the schools and at John 23rd is going to come in handy in these next 2 years.  The Costa Ricans seem particularly proud of the fact that they don’t have an army and tend to be very cordial and concerned about everyone’s well being.  Conversations always start with questions about your well-being as well as your family, before delving into business.  Many times their answer to “como esta” ?  is “Pura Vida”!
                               Vilma and Monica in front of their house.  Our apt. is in the back.

This weekend, Francis and I went with our host family, Vilma and Monica, to visit Vilma’s parents in San Jose.  The drive reminded us of a drive to Grand Lake, via Estes Park and Trail Ridge Road.  We went up and down and around many “cuestas” (hills) to get there, through many low lying clouds, which at night made the visibility quite bad.  Luckily, Vilma has made this journey many times and knows the route by heart.  She said her old Toyota Tercel could probably make the trip on its own!  Another point of Tico pride is their social security system, which includes health care for everyone (as long as you contributed your % into the system while you worked).  Kids up to the age of 18, as well as pregnant women are covered regardless.  There are health care centers with primary care for every 4500 people and clinics and hospitals dispersed around the country to serve the healthcare needs of everyone.  Of course there are private practices as well, for those who can afford extra insurance; and as you may know, there are many “extranjeros” (foreigners), who come here for non-emergent or elective medical care as well, since it is more affordable than in the states.  From what I’ve heard, they have a very high standard of medical care  and I would suspect there’s no shortage of places to go to recuperate from surgery if you had it here!  Vilma’s mom is recovering from surgery for breast cancer and will be starting radiation therapy soon.  Vilma goes to visit her parents every 2 months to restock their supply of food and house basics.  One of their granddaughter’s takes care of them on a daily basis with cooking and cleaning, while Vilma and her siblings provide money for their needs.  Since her father was a farmer throughout his life and didn’t have enough money to contribute to the pension system, they are dependent on their family for this support.  It’s a system similar to ours in that regard.  There were people coming and going from the house during our 2 day visit there; it’s no wonder, given that there’s grandparents, nieces, nephews and grandchildren all nearby; not to mention, dogs, a cat, several birds and many fish. 


We hung out with Monica (Vilma's daughter, in the back) and Susan (5 y.o great-grandaughter of Vilma's parents).  I spent a lot of time braiding hair and Francis was a big hit with his deck of cards.

Even though their home is small, they welcomed us with open arms and invited us to return whenever we can.  It was nice being around young kids as well, for listening to and using our Spanish.  I view every activity as a Spanish lesson and am happy when I can learn a few new words every day.  I measure my progress by how many times I have to ask someone to repeat themselves or by the look I get when I’ve just expressed myself.  (I get that look a lot!)

As we sit here this Sunday afternoon, listening to the sound of the rain and look out at the greenery that frames our home, we are grateful for this time and feel so blessed to have our host family here and our “parientes” (relatives) and amigos back home to support us on this journey!
Love to all.
These little green hummingbirds love this purple plant, we see them frequently outside our apt. window.